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What can you expect from a BDSM escort?

When you book a BDSM escort, you do so with certain expectations. Maybe you’ve watched a BDSM video and you’d love to experience it too. If you don’t have a partner, or a partner who is absolutely not up for this, you can make an appointment with one of the SM mistresses of our agency. This can be done at your home, but you can also have the lady / mistress visit you in a hotel room rented by you. Please note that our escorts only cater for outcall lady, we do not receive clients in our own premises.

How do I find a mistress who wants an SM date?

You can quickly see which ladies are available for a kinky date at Desire Escorts. All escorts who work for us have their own personal page. Here they introduce themselves and you can also read more information, including about the special services for which you can book this lady. If the escort of your choice is available for BDSM then that will be listed. If you have any doubts, you can of course also contact us so that we can make you a proposal. If you indicate what your expectations are, we can almost always recommend a lady who can meet them well.

Where can I rent a room for a BDSM girl experience?

You can rent a room in many hotels if you want to host a BDSM escort or a mistress. In almost every hotel you can receive a guest in your room without paying extra. Only if the BDSM girl spends the night with you do you owe an overnight stay for two people. In addition, there are hotels where you can rent a room for a few hours. These hotels are typically focused on facilitating erotic encounters. Then there are special private houses where you can not only meet one of the ladies working there, but where you can also rent a room that you can use with a BDSM escort.

The division of roles in BDSM cases

In a role-playing game, one person fulfills the role of the dominant, also known as master or mistress, and the other plays the role of the subordinate, also referred to as the sub. If you book a BDSMgirl, the lady generally fulfills the role of the mistress. In consultation, you can also reverse the roles, but only if your escort girl agrees. The dominant player always takes the subordinate into account. Both have to enjoy the role-play and that means that both are allowed to set their boundaries. Often a ‘stop word’ is agreed upon. When that word is spoken, the other person immediately stops the action. This is often an unusual word to avoid misunderstandings.

Attributes used in SM

BDSM means: Bondage and Discipline (BD), Dominance and Submission (DS) and Sadism and Masochism (SM)). Quite a mouthful, but it comes down to the fact that it is a fairly kinky form of sexual experience. Certain specific tools are used for this. The subordinate can be chained to the bed with rope or tape. Tape can also be used to tape the mouth. Handcuffs are also used when chaining hands or feet. Then there are feathers and whips to caress or to give hard blows. Masks are used to block the view of the subordinate so that he or she does not see what is about to happen. Nipple clamps and weights provide extra pain stimuli to the nipples or testicles. Of course, not all these tools have to be used, often a choice is made.

What roleplays are played in BDSM?

You can decide for yourself if you want a specific role-playing game. For example, your BDSM escort can dress as a policewoman, chambermaid or nurse. But of course this is not necessary, even without specific role play you can enjoy this form of SM sex. If you book a BDSM escort with Desire Escorts you can specify if you want a specific roleplay so that your mistress can take this into account when she visits you. A BDSM girl obviously expresses absolute discretion. She will only change her clothes after she has arrived at your place and will also take off her special outfit before she leaves. Your neighbors or other hotel guests will therefore absolutely not notice that you had an erotic date with a kinky touch.

Below are a number of BDSM Toys that are commonly used.

Nipple clamp
Bondage ropes
Harnesses
Dilators
Nipple suckers
Whip
Shackle
Speculums
Electro sex toys
Chastity Articles
Spanking Paddles

Meet a mistress

Ordering a mistress for a BDSM girl date is the ideal way to get acquainted with this special way of sexual experience. If you don’t have any experience with this but you are curious, an experienced BDSM escort can initiate you into the SM world. You may come to the conclusion that this is not for you after all, you may discover that you want to do this more often. You can then take this into account, for example, when looking for a partner. You can also visit a swingers club with a domina. Many swingers clubs organize regular SM evenings. This is also a way to get acquainted with this special form of sex.

There Is Still A Taboo On Dominant Sex Services

Lovers of BDSM and S&M still experience a taboo. According to those who are skeptical or even dismissive, sex should be about loving and spoiling each other. They don’t understand that this is clearly different for some people. They enjoy being hurt, but in a respectful way. In an SM roleplay, it is never the intention to hurt someone while they clearly indicate that they do not want this. After all, that would be a case of mistreatment, which is of a completely different order. Our BDSM escort girls (mistress) always take into account the wishes and instructions of you as a client.

Intimate contact during a BDSM session

Of course, intimate contact can take place during an SM sex session. A condom is always used for this. This is to protect both you and the sex worker from sexually transmitted diseases. Your escort girl always has condoms with her when she visits you, so you don’t have to take care of them. The use of a condom is non-negotiable. If you do not want this, there will be no intimate contact, not even orally. We therefore ask you to respect this position.

Book SM sex at our agency now

Would you like to book a BDSM escort at Desire Escorts? Then make your choice based on the overview on our website. Please provide the name of the lady when booking and the time you would like to receive her. Will the meeting take place in a hotel room? Please also provide your room number. Your escort can then walk straight to your room as soon as she has arrived. This increases your privacy. Keep in mind that our escort girls often combine this work with a study or a regular job. This means that they are not available on all days. If you have a specific preference, it is advisable to book this BDSM escort Amsterdam well in advance. This way you avoid disappointment.