How do I discreetly communicate my wishes in advance?

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Clear and discreet communication is the key to a successful appointment. If you have specific needs or expectations, it is essential to communicate them in advance through our agency. This ensures that the escort is well prepared and that there are no misunderstandings.


Three Tips for Effective and Discreet Communication #

Follow these steps to convey your request clearly and professionally.

1. Be Clear, But Always Respectful #

When describing your desires, be specific about what you are looking for (e.g., “I am looking for a GFE experience” or “I prefer sociability”). Always use a professional and respectful tone. Our agency will ensure that these wishes reach the escort discreetly.

2. Use Official Communication Channels. #

Communicate all your requirements directly through the secure live chat with our agency. Never communicate sensitive details through unsecured channels or unsolicited directly with the escort, unless explicitly agreed upon.

3. Ask about the Limits of the Escort #

It is professional to ask, “Are there any services you absolutely do not offer?” This shows respect for her boundaries. She sets the boundaries; your role is to understand and respect them in advance.


What You Should Avoid in Communication #

To maintain discretion and comfort, there are a few things best avoided.

Coercive and Aggressive Language #

Never use coercive or aggressive language. Any disrespect or attempt to negotiate non-negotiable boundaries will result in immediate denial of service.

Excessive Personal Questions #

Keep your communication focused on the service. Do not ask questions about her private life, family or other extremely personal matters. Our Privacy Policy also applies to the protection of the escort.

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Services & Experience

  • Can I discuss specific desires or fantasies in advance?

    Yes, this is highly recommended. Discreetly discuss any desires or fantasies in advance via chat. The escort can then determine if it is within her limits and the Terms and Conditions.

  • May I keep in touch with the escort after the booking is over?

    No, personal contact after booking is not allowed. All communication is only through the agency’s official channels to ensure discretion and professional boundaries.

  • Is there a difference in the Girlfriend Experience per escort?

    Absolutely. GFE is a personal experience, so the exact interpretation depends on the escort and her personality. Of course, the basic principles of discretion and respect always remain the same.

  • Should I talk about personal topics if I don’t want to?

    No. One of the most important rules of etiquette is respect for privacy. You are under no obligation to share personal, financial or business details. The focus is on your comfort and the experience.

  • Should I talk about personal topics if I don’t want to?

    No. One of the most important rules of etiquette is respect for privacy. You are under no obligation to share personal, financial or business details. The focus is on your comfort and the experience.

  • What should I do if I suddenly don’t like the atmosphere during the appointment?

    You may always stop the appointment if you feel uncomfortable. Discuss this discreetly with the escort. Should a dispute arise over the reason, contact the agency immediately.

Geüpdatet op October 7, 2025