How do I discuss sensitive topics or fantasies that are not standard?

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It is perfectly normal to have specific desires or fantasies. At Desire Escorts, we encourage openness and honesty so that we can create an experience that is perfect for you. The key is to discuss these sensitive topics discreetly and respectfully before booking. Here’s how to do this safely and professionally.


1. Why Advance Discussion is Crucial #

We are open to a wide range of wishes, but there are absolute limits that should never be crossed. It is crucial to discuss your wishes in advance for two reasons:

  1. Establishing Boundaries: The escort must be given the opportunity to determine whether the desires are within her personal boundaries and those of the agency.
  2. Avoiding Disappointment: Having clarity in advance avoids disappointment or uncomfortable situations during the appointment. If a wish is not possible, we can discuss alternatives right away.

What are the absolute limits and non-negotiable rules?


2. The Right Way to Communicate (Discreet). #

Always use the agency’s official communication channels (such as chat, Telegram or e-mail) to raise these issues.

  1. Formulate Respectfully: Begin with a friendly tone and introduce your desires as a “preference” or “option.
    • Good Approach: “I was wondering if [SPECIFIC DESIRE] would be negotiable for me appointment.”
    • Poor Approach: Demanding questions or implicitly assuming the wish will be granted.
  2. Focus on Service: Describe the desire in terms of the service or experience you are seeking, and not in a coercive way.

Note: Never try to discuss sensitive topics directly with the escort during the introduction unless the agency has already approved it.

How do I discreetly communicate my wishes in advance?


3. The Role of the Office #

Our team acts as a professional and neutral intermediary.

  • Screening: We review your request and consult discreetly with the escort.
  • Feedback: You will receive a clear confirmation or rejection from us. If the request is rejected, we can often recommend another escort who does meet these preferences.

Our ladies are professional and never become judgmental about your desires, but their personal boundaries are always paramount.


Conclusion

Don’t hesitate to share your fantasies! By discussing these sensitive topics respectfully and through official channels in advance, you assure yourself of a safe, enjoyable experience that meets mutual expectations. This is the basis of the professional service we provide.

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Services & Experience

  • Can I discuss specific desires or fantasies in advance?

    Yes, this is highly recommended. Discreetly discuss any desires or fantasies in advance via chat. The escort can then determine if it is within her limits and the Terms and Conditions.

  • May I keep in touch with the escort after the booking is over?

    No, personal contact after booking is not allowed. All communication is only through the agency’s official channels to ensure discretion and professional boundaries.

  • Is there a difference in the Girlfriend Experience per escort?

    Absolutely. GFE is a personal experience, so the exact interpretation depends on the escort and her personality. Of course, the basic principles of discretion and respect always remain the same.

  • Should I talk about personal topics if I don’t want to?

    No. One of the most important rules of etiquette is respect for privacy. You are under no obligation to share personal, financial or business details. The focus is on your comfort and the experience.

  • Should I talk about personal topics if I don’t want to?

    No. One of the most important rules of etiquette is respect for privacy. You are under no obligation to share personal, financial or business details. The focus is on your comfort and the experience.

  • What should I do if I suddenly don’t like the atmosphere during the appointment?

    You may always stop the appointment if you feel uncomfortable. Discuss this discreetly with the escort. Should a dispute arise over the reason, contact the agency immediately.

Geüpdatet op October 23, 2025